New American Oxford Dictionary
druther
druth er |ˈdrəT͟Hər ˈdrəðər | informal ▶noun (usu. one's druthers ) a person's preference in a matter: if I had my druthers, I would prefer to be a writer. ▶adverb rather; by preference. ORIGIN late 19th cent.: from a US regional pronunciation of I'd rather, contraction of would rather. Compare with ruther .
Oxford Dictionary
druther
druther |ˈdrʌðə |N. Amer. informal ▶noun (usu. one's druthers ) one's preference in a matter: if I had my druthers, I would prefer to be a writer. ▶adverb rather; by preference. ORIGIN late 19th cent.: from a US regional pronunciation of I'd rather, contraction of would rather .
American Oxford Thesaurus
druthers
druthers plural noun informal if I had my druthers, we would start over again: preference, choice, liking, choosing, say. WORD NOTE druthers As in “if I had my druthers. ” As a way of indicating a preference, this nonstandard word deserves to be used more widely in place of bland, overly corporate- or financial-sounding terms like options. The only problem is that some people who know druthers from Li'l Abner think it is a mock-Southernism, and therefore condescending. I don't hear it that way, though, and it predates the comic strip. So use without fear. — DA Conversational, opinionated, and idiomatic, these Word Notes are an opportunity to see a working writer's perspective on a particular word or usage.